I finally speak to Doc on the phone and

he asked me if I had been home when he called and refused to answer because it was him. I said I am not going to talk to you until our relationship is severed where I have to be around your drinking. He asked me if I would refuse to answer his calls in the future. I said whatever I need to do to move on I will do. I have become allergic to your drinking. He said okay and hung up.