Wednesday, April 1, 2009
Then comes the calm...
April brought welcome relief to the Westward Ho. Our anguished resident at last agreed to go off to a facility for help with his alcoholic meltdown that has kept us on the edge for over a week I never felt such relief as when I talked to one of his good friends who I could see had been working tirelessly to try to save his life. I thought she was behaving in an admirable manner and he certainly needed this kind of friend. I was afraid she would have fled the premises, but she was made of stronger mettle than that.
I have long had all I could handle with Doc and could not take the kind of measures she did. Perhaps in time she will have some ideas about Doc as she said she used to be a counselor Doc flirts with the idea of rehab now and then, so he made me repeat the whole story.
I am sure our friend is still not out of the woods, and might resist treatment as he has been known to do. He and Doc both are of this old fashioned breed of men who think they can handle their lives with no help, but then they just don't do it.
It's very important to trust someone or something to get the monster in control. Doc is certainly not safe. He's just a sipper not a gulper. My dad could hit a crisis in a few hours of drinking by pouring copious amounts of poisonous brew down himself. I had never gotten acquainted with anyone before with the sipping approach to death by alcohol. I still maintain this method may be slow but it will get you in the ground eventually.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
Blog Archive
-
▼
2009
(401)
-
▼
April
(36)
- On owning people
- A great day and a half to my daughter Ronda's
- Blue shines healing light on Colfrey and promised ...
- In my new spring outfit, as dangerous as I am prob...
- Talking to the afflicted
- Rude insane young Jake is forced to listen to Jess...
- Spirit walking adaptation after near death experie...
- Closer and closer to death
- I hope the lion sleeps tonight referring to Doc a...
- 21 polo horses owned by a Venzuela Polo Team died ...
- I thought I would enter the Photo Challenge this week
- Kelli, here is a country woman making soap
- Blue tells son Cal, the playwright, his future (B...
- Son Dan and I go see "State of Play" at the movies
- Son Gary meets me at the Civic Place Park for ligh...
- Visit to new Civic Park Plaza and winning art object!
- When husbands are gay, wives hardly notice (Blue...
- I dreamed I was dancing with the stars and--
- Royce explains why he cannot leave his wife (Blue...
- Easter Sunday
- Visiting Ronda and Ethan and Dan
- free spirit
- My new spring skirt black and white
- Colfrey takes off wig baring her bald alien head ...
- Farmers Market and more healthful outings
- Coffee with the legislater
- Royce and Thor insist on a ride in the space ship ...
- A cheerer upper from the thrift store
- An angel to watch over you, Lisa and Nelishia and ...
- Going to tackle addiction harder
- Lord have mercy on all the addicted
- ET Blue asks ailing sister Colfrey to have his chi...
- Westward Ho's biggest baseball fan on life support
- Walking on a spring morning...
- Luis the Mexican explains Jessie the playwright to...
- Then comes the calm...
-
▼
April
(36)
3 comments:
I'm sorry you're still having trouble with Doc's drinking. He seems really pretty good as Blue however. I'm enjoying the play immensely!
Hopefully the rest of week will be a good one for you.
Oh dear Gerry you are so patient and large hearted.
Please tell Doc on my behalf to go into rehab.
Glad your friend is seeking help.
Watching your video blogs makes me long for a a video too.Video phones are the cheapest cost about $100, but i can 't afford them.Just dreaming.
Take care.Like your hose pictures.
Post a Comment